Saturday, August 30, 2014

Burning Girls

I'm a tree hugger, oh yeah
No not really. My friends and I saw lots of people flying in to Reno, NV for the Burning Man Festival on Sunday. They were dressed in tutus and had head dresses with hair the color of rainbows.

The Burning Man organization holds a festival for 8 days around Labor Day every year. This group of people creates the infrastructure of Black Rock City, where participants dedicate themselves to the spirit of community, art, self-expression, and self-reliance. That's the official line. From my own outside research - it looks like a great big partay in the desert - 70,000 people strong. All partially clothed (if at all) in crazy clothes.

Jules and me - breakfast in Reno
I was in Reno meeting my girlies. Paula Bacon, Atlantic home girl had so kindly invited me to vacation with her in Lake Tahoe. Our friend Julia Hoilien was able to join us as well. Woo Hoo - girl time. I love my husband dearly - but I do need an estrogen fix now and again! Especially in lovely California/Nevada.

Gambled away $7...
 
Jules and I arrived early in Reno on Sunday. We took a cab from the airport to downtown to get some eats. I was starved! Friendly people told us of a place we could walk to - trailed by our wheelie suitcases. Great place - and fun to catch up with Julia and hear about her fam over a huge mess of eggs and other good stuff. I decided Reno is Las Vegas' slutty uglier cousin. Not as flashy or rich - but nicer. We found our way to Harrah's - and lost a couple bucks before taking the FREE shuttle back to the airport to meet Paula.

Then we watched more Burners arrive before she did. They looked like kids before Christmas. Then the three amigos from Atlantic got together - and we were like kids before Christmas. At a beautiful lake in great weather. Woohoo! Seventy degrees and sunny, nice condo near the lake and good pals.

We walked, talked, biked, hiked, had a few drinks and shopped. We sat in the hot tub. Julia and Paula cooked so we didn't even need to go out for supper. #goodcooks.
a rest stop on the bike trail
  • We rented bikes in South Lake Tahoe. Julia got a lemon bike. Her chain fell off!
  • We parked the bikes and walked into a park that featured a meadow and a wetland.
  • We rode around 10 miles. Paula and Julia did so all in one gear!
  • On Tuesday we drove to Lake Tahoe's castle - Vikingsholm.
  • On the way there we enjoyed Inspiration Point's beautiful vistas.
  • The hike down to the house and beach wasn't bad - the way up...kinda brutal!
  • I loved the early "green" roof of the Vikingsholm.
  • My cousin Steve Legarra, who is a CA guy, now has a place in Tahoe. He gave us some tips on where to go in the area. We stopped at Sunnyside Resort for lunch - lovely lakeside view and good eats.
  • Our last morning we stopped in Carson City, NV for breakfast on our way to the airport - another fab local diner.
with my pal Paula at Inspiration Point

Green Roof

Emerald Bay
Sunnyside - no, not the public pool in Atlantic...


great menu - and sweet potato pancakes in Carson City!
It was a great time with great friends. #blessed



Monday, August 18, 2014

LOTO 2014

Pablo and I didn't understand the acronym at first when Donnie McKim emailed with the heading LOTO. Lots of terrible offers? Leap Off To Order?

I even googled it. Nothing. Then it hit me. Lake of the Ozarks. Yay - we love going to LOTO! We are friends with people who own property there. (and yes...we'd like 'em anyway without all their cool homes and stuff).

McKims purchased a place two years ago and Sharon and Allan Higgins are working on their third home there. I don't think you can call it "flipping" when you own each place that long. Both fams are turning diamonds (okay maybe they were rhinestones) in the rough into beautiful lake homes.

To save vacation time, I put a whole week of work hours in Monday through Wednesday. Working at the Iowa State Fair helped. I enjoy talking to people about all things environmental. And choosing what to eat during my break. #corndog, #pulledturkey, #lemonade.
On the McKim deck - flying the colors!
 
We took off for LOTO early Thursday. McKims, McFees and Higgins had all arrived prior. The guys got their handyman fix that afternoon - around the McKim place. We girls did some deck time. Later we headed out on the McKim 'toon (that's pontoon for you landlubbers) for wings and brews.
McKims' daughter Katie was there with her nifty doggy Lena - who loves to swim and ride in the boat. She's a golden doodle and the calmest pup ever - except when she sees ducks.
Sharon with Katie and Lena
On Friday, Katie headed out for home - we missed her and Lena. We headed out on the boat towards the dam - to meet our little buddy Judson. He'd never been to this lake. As a Missouri resident for 3+ years now it was about time. He drove down from St. Louis. Nice of Don and Dee to allow us to invite him along. GF Kara was working in Alabama - jealous girl! We met him at a bar and off we went to Coconuts!

We didn't actually stop at the Hillbilly Yacht Club - but the pic is effective
Coconuts - meat market! Fun to watch the activities
We didn't stay for "foam" and the band at 9:30 p.m. at Shady Gators...
Saturday started out a bit rainy. We ate breakfast in town and the boys did "errands". They did stop at a number of manly places like Mennards but I think some beer was involved. The girls went to the outlet mall. By late morning the clouds had mostly parted - it was boatin' time!

We proceeded to Snake Cove (named because of its snakey shape) to show Jud what "floating" is all about. Lake + noodles or some other flotation device and a beverage. We passed a group of dads and sons (ages 8-11ish) with a pontoon that had a diving platform roof. Some boys were doing flips. We applauded and egged them on. This is livin' ya'll.
My boys

After I'd floated for like 10 minutes Jud pointed out a snake swimming about 10 yards away from us - headed across the cove. Then it went under the water. Yikes! There was a made scramble as Bobbie got out of the water. Dee never got in. We were OVER Snake Cove - that was apparently not just named after the shape of the cove...


We ended up motoring to a more open area, tying the Lena (I'm trying out names for the McKim boat) up to a boat owned by a group from Cedar Rapids.  They are younger folks, likely in their early 40's, late 30's. They had a great sound system and were fun to talk to. No snakes. I loved floating with Jud and talking about life. #pricelessmoments
Now I see why it rained a bit on us. A bit cloudy!

That night we grilled hamburgers at McKims - excited to make it past 10 p.m. (I rested my eyes a bit earlier). I admit - I'm one of the first to bail out for bed. Sun, fun and liquor tire me out. In a good way!

We headed home early Sunday, a shade darker than lily white, despite application of oodles of sunscreen. The older I get, the more I appreciate good times with fam and friends. #luckygirl.
The boys...Jeff gave Jud valuable coffee drinking advice. Add Bailey's.


Sunday, August 10, 2014

Step away from the cellie and the Fair

I'm glad cell phones weren't the norm when Amy and Juddy were little tykes. I'm afraid I would have been one of those distracted parents - not living in the moment with them.
who wouldn't pay attention to these cuties?


I fear I would have been reading the New York Times on a swing instead of chasing them around the little kids' play area at McKinley Park. My Facebook friends would have had to suffer through weekly pics of the cherubs - on the glider, sliding with Moki the Wonder Dog and crossing the dangerous swinging bridge. Smile!

The good news is that our children are safely raised. I was there for them when it counted (because I didn't get my first brick-sized cell phone until they were past middle school age). I watched every sports event, went to each doctor's appointment and parent/teacher conference and drove them safely to and fro without talking on a cell phone or using a Smart Phone. They had my mostly full attention (I did rock out to the radio in the car).

Today? My name is Leslie and I've got a Smart Phone thang. When I have spare moments I fill them with information gathering - Facebook, Twitter, NYT, WaPo (Washington Post), DM Register. I'm always on the prowl. I did take 40 days away from Facebook during Lent. It was a good exercise. I now need to go away to a deserted island with no reception for a full information blackout.

I like my FB photo shares. Am I overdoing it? Probably. Oh well - I currently have no plans to change my over-sharing ways. I try to keep it interesting - posting things I think others might like to see or do. Or I post fam stuff for our many relatives' benefit. I like to see your photos after all... If others don't like it they can unfriend me. I won't even know, so it won't lay awake nights wondering why you don't like me anymore...

That said, I know I should put the darn phone away more often. All that information will wait for me. Live in the moment Loose Leaf!(my dad called me that). Love taking those pics though...fun getting Paul to pose for selfies. He's very patient with me.

Fair Fun - Paul and I attended the Iowa State Fair on Friday, a bit later than we'd planned after we got to install a water heater...ours was leaking. At first we blamed Odie for a weak bladder. But she can't pee that much...

We saw lots of people we knew. Former neighbors Benoits, Bob Drustrup who used to work at DNR, our neighbor Vicki, Traci Haley with Betty Hartsook and Lori Vicker, Carol McFee Baudler and Bobbie and Jeff McFee and some others I can't think of. Just like home!
Paul points out all the Goldsmiths listed on the wall at the Iowa State University exhibit - alums living in Iowa. Me, him, Kenny, Mary and many nephews and cousins.
Tums were in order later after we shared: Philly cheesesteak, footlong corndog, breaded chicken on a stick with peppers and onions, funnel cake with chocolate. Plus beer.
We ran into Bobbie and Jeff with their nephew Trey and had a beer with them later. (Trey didn't get one)
The closest we got to the butter cow - Butter Legs
 
Better than butter cow...the bush cow
A girl from Afton received a blue ribbon on this art work she welded. Awesome! Recycling and a horse.
 


Thursday, August 7, 2014

Agriculture and Society

That's the new name of my college Major - formerly known as Public Service and Administration in Agriculture (PSA) offered at Iowa State University. I know...it's a funny major for the daughter of a lingerie sales exec. But I had already tried out other majors like Pre-Veterinary Science (science and I didn't get along), animal science (while I was quite friendly with horses, I was no match with farm kids when it came to Durocs and Angus and bird's foot trefoil).
Sophomore year with roomie Vicki and her fam and mine - VEISHEA (which will never be held again - thanks idiot rioters)

I also dallied with Ag Journalism. On my one big story for journalism class I ran into some push back by the interviewee. It was something about leasing Hilton Colesium and I had called some University big wig who didn't speak nicely to me. I didn't like it. I wanted to work in a field where everyone was always nice. Haha.

I took a Sociology class and liked it. I enjoyed Political Science too. Then I heard about a major that combined these things - all in the College of Agriculture, a college I felt at home in - despite all those big belt buckle dudes. PSA had a fabulous advisor who seemed to actually care about his advisees. And a son who would one day be the Mayor and go on to play basketball and then coach the Cyclones - but was only about 4 years old at that time. The advisors name was Eric Hoiberg - great guy. We even had PSA Club at his house.

A T-Shirt from the PSA Club in the late 90's After Dean Hoiberg stopped advising
You know you're getting old when your major name changes. It doesn't matter though - graduates will continue to be fabulously well-rounded (the rest of the major includes economics and a minor - mine was business). They shall go forth and conquer.

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Kukie Robbie and Ollie (I know it's not Kukla, Fran and Ollie - weak)

Amy, Rob and me last summer

My real BFF (cuz I truly have know her forever) Robbie Dob (Robyn Bredensteiner Uehling - Atlantic home girl now living in Florida) has adopted a new family member. Her loyal friend Nhoj (John backwards)...no that isn't it. Nhoj was the name of the Bredensteiner dog when they lived in Fairlawns. He was named after the guy they got him from. I remember him well - because he used to hump my back when we'd sit on the floor to play board games. Bad Nhoj! What is he doing Mommy?

No, Robyn's recent doggy friend was Trebor - named, of course, after her daddy Robert Bredensteiner. I bet you can understand why she didn't name him Renietsnederb. After Treb passed over the Rainbow Bridge (I know, it's kind of a silly thing to say, but that poem people send after your pet passes away always makes me cry...) Rob gave herself time to grieve. She didn't rush into adopting another pet. That was wise!

Just a few weeks ago I saw on Facebook that there is a new guy in Robyn's life. The 4-legged kind. Oliver - I'm not sure why his name isn't Eilsel. Puzzling...But Oliver is adorable and she reports that he is adapting quite well to her weirdness. I'm pleased and am really happy for her. She has always been a doggy person - just like her momma - who had a dog named ToJo (for Tom and Jody). I called that dog Toe Jam just for fun. I think Oliver will be Ollie. That IS how Robyn became Robbie Dob after all, my father. It's a Bullock tradition to change names.
He's smiling at you. This photo warms my heart.




Saturday, August 2, 2014

The Bullocks of Snob Hill and Fairlawns


Ain't it the truth! We spent a lot of time with those kiddos. And it was post World War 2. There were a lot of us - the birth control pill hadn't yet been made readily available to families. All you need is love.

My parents were married in 1950, and graduated from the University of Iowa that next spring. Dad was a ROTC and he could see the writing on the wall - with the Korean conflict, he was likely going to be shipped off soon. The stork evidently tracked them down and a little thing called Susi appeared a year after they were married. Mom and Dad headed to Georgia for Dad's basic training. Afterwards he spent time in Korea, desperately trying to get back to his wife and daughter. Dad was a 2nd Lieutenant and he had something to do with procurement. He said it was miserable.

I have a copy of a menu from a Christmas Dinner that Dad put together for the guys stationed with him. I little bit of Mash...Dave Bullock style. In the meantime - what was Pat doing? I saw videos (8 mm film) of my mom with little Susan, my big sis, visiting mom's sister Dorothy and family at Easter in Sacramento, CA. I'm sure she was pining for her honey.

When Dad got back they headed back to the promised land - my Pop's hometown, Atlantic, Iowa. Three prior generations of Bullocks had raised families there. Though Adnah David, Dad's great grandfather really hailed from the 'burbs - Anita/Wiota. Did Mom really want to go there? Society girl from the big town of Cedar Rapids? She ended up living in A-town a lot longer than she ever did CR.
Herbert Leslie Morehead

My mother's dad was a contractor. I don't know the story about how my folks picked the lot they built their home on. And then my grandpa, Herbert Leslie Morehead designed and built the place. Right down to the little playhouse in the backyard. Betsy tells me people she went to school with called where we lived...Snob Hill. I'm not sure why. It was definitely a hill - terrible to ride your bike up! Or trike down - with no feet on the pedals.
202 Crombie watercolor by Marilyn Van Ginkle

Below Snob Hill sits the neighborhood known as Fairlawns. For the most part it consists one story, one car garage homes - a tract built after World War 2. We have a picture of the area when it was mostly undeveloped. It was a flat area close to the newest elementary school - perfect for

My sisters and friends knew nothing of stalkers and perverts in th e1960s. The world (and our neighborhood) was our oyster - and a lot of good (and some not all that great) families in our world. It takes a village you know - look how good I turned out! When we needed to be chewed out, usually one of the moms or retired folk provided the words of wisdom.
Some of the neighborhood kids right after my grandpa remodeled our house

A few of the caste of characters:
The Rechtebachs, Youngers, Heplers, Graysons, Bucks, and the people next door who gave out quarters for Halloween, Fausts, Smiths, Van Nostrands, Buckinghams, Fiefs, Smiths, Thompsons, Mallons, Drakes, Hensleys, Kinens, Wereshs, Grotes, Bredensteiners and some others I can't recall. Maybe you fine readers can assist. What was Sheila's last name...Louie Reinig's sister. Plus those people that lived next to Robyn. I didn't know that block as well.

The neighbors on Snob Hill (Crombie): I saw in the obituaries recently that Phyllis Otto Germain passed away at age 89. They were our first next door neighbors. I'm not sure if I actually remember them or just the stories - such as Susi and Johnny burning the lilac bushes down. Phyllis's parents the Ottos lived up around the corner (on the way to Tyler's house). So even after they moved away to North Carolina they'd stop to see us. I wrote a paper once about how she once beat Babe Didrikson in golf. Her daughter Dorothy was a pro golfer too. When the moved another fam briefly lived there. The son tried to burn me with a car cigarette lighter and Dad slugged him. Good thing they were gone quickly!

Reinertsons were the bestest! One kid for each of us to hang with. Except poor Donnie - we didn't have a boy to match with him. Cindy/Kathryn, Laurie/me, Betsy/Annie. We had fun with their cousins from Chicago and spend countless hours at each other's homes. I'm so glad Don (the dad) has gotten together with Betty Gee after each lost their spouse.

Baxters, neighbor who lived across the street, were my special friends. They lived in an old farm house that was encroached upon by the town. (Snob Hill - ha!) They were around my grandparent's age. Before I got too old to be self-conscious I'd pop over when Harley was outside and bug him. His yard was big enough that he had a big garden with sweet corn and potatoes etc. I still remember eating a raw potato there with salt! Of course we treated their yard like our own and would cut through on our way to Tyler's neighborhood. Baxter's back featured a tree that was so slanted that our dachshund Jud (yes my son is named after my dog/and dad) could "climb" it.

What was the name of the people who lived on the corner? The dad rigged a pulley thing so he could let his dog - a lab, out of the outdoor kennel into the fenced back yard - all from the house. Did they adopt a child and move away? Later Schraders moved into that house. Eddie and Bev Freese - very good friends of my parents lived across the backyard from our house. I loved playing with their son Kent's electric football game. Barb was a cheerleader. Paul Mormon and wife lived next to them. Their son Paul was older but they adopted two children when I was in junior high. The Hayes fam lived around the bend. Pat was usually out causing trouble on the Schwinn.

We knew where all the kids were. If bored in the summer I would just tool around on my bike to drum up some action - someone was bound to be doing something in their yard. There weren't many fences (except Mrs. Dutton who had buried her husband in the backyard - myth). Sardines, kick the can, dusk games with the locusts shrieking in the background. In the winter - if you had a hill, you might find us sledding down it. We didn't need no stinking permission! Fond memories for this small town girl.